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	<title>Comments for MichelleJoyPhelps</title>
	<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com</link>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 00:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Haters by Linz</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2009/02/04/haters/#comment-28</link>
		<dc:creator>Linz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 17:30:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ahaha...this is great &#38; soooo true!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ahaha&#8230;this is great &amp; soooo true!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Racism: Brown vs. Black by zesty1</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/10/28/racism-brown-vs-black/#comment-18</link>
		<dc:creator>zesty1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 03:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/10/28/racism-brown-vs-black/#comment-18</guid>
		<description>Boy are you confused, first we have hatred from whites, now we must endure the brown horde killing our young men, setting our women on fire etc.
Blacks in america should stop looking for other races to respect us.
Before they come here they are told that we are at the bottom of the ladder, so they come,all races and treat blacks like shit regardless of class.
I DO NOT WANT OR NEED SOME SOUTH OF THE BORDER HOMICIDAL RACIST ON MY TEAM.
AND YOU ARE WRONG FOR SUGGESTING UNITY WITH PEOPLE WHO CONDONE BY THEIR SILENCE WHAT THEIR CHILDREN AND FATHERS DO IN OUR COMMUNITIES.
YOU ARE NAIVE.
Wake up, stop patronizing business that hire these animals, fire your gardener/housekeeper/baby sitter, and take a stand.
Also tell your latino friends when they protest the killings of our children by their out of control racist gangs then more blacks will support their cause.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boy are you confused, first we have hatred from whites, now we must endure the brown horde killing our young men, setting our women on fire etc.<br />
Blacks in america should stop looking for other races to respect us.<br />
Before they come here they are told that we are at the bottom of the ladder, so they come,all races and treat blacks like shit regardless of class.<br />
I DO NOT WANT OR NEED SOME SOUTH OF THE BORDER HOMICIDAL RACIST ON MY TEAM.<br />
AND YOU ARE WRONG FOR SUGGESTING UNITY WITH PEOPLE WHO CONDONE BY THEIR SILENCE WHAT THEIR CHILDREN AND FATHERS DO IN OUR COMMUNITIES.<br />
YOU ARE NAIVE.<br />
Wake up, stop patronizing business that hire these animals, fire your gardener/housekeeper/baby sitter, and take a stand.<br />
Also tell your latino friends when they protest the killings of our children by their out of control racist gangs then more blacks will support their cause.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inspire Others by Katrina</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/10/14/inspire-others/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>Katrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 16:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/10/14/inspire-others/#comment-16</guid>
		<description>Well...do continue the tale, please.  The outcome of your so-called confession.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well&#8230;do continue the tale, please.  The outcome of your so-called confession.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Inspire Others by Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/10/14/inspire-others/#comment-14</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 16:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/10/14/inspire-others/#comment-14</guid>
		<description>your right never take for granted family and friends. I lost my 4 year old son's father last year without notice he was here one day and gone the next. Although we weren't involved anymore I miss him every second of the day since he has been gone. More so my heart goes out to my son who will never know how amazing his dad was. So I agree Michelle, never just think its another day that you see your family or friends cherish it, don't hold grudges, always let them know you care at that moment. I hate that I never told my son's dad that no matter what happened between us I will always love him especially for giving me my beautiful son. 

I will always love you Troy.
Troy Elden Crook
1978-2007</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>your right never take for granted family and friends. I lost my 4 year old son&#8217;s father last year without notice he was here one day and gone the next. Although we weren&#8217;t involved anymore I miss him every second of the day since he has been gone. More so my heart goes out to my son who will never know how amazing his dad was. So I agree Michelle, never just think its another day that you see your family or friends cherish it, don&#8217;t hold grudges, always let them know you care at that moment. I hate that I never told my son&#8217;s dad that no matter what happened between us I will always love him especially for giving me my beautiful son. </p>
<p>I will always love you Troy.<br />
Troy Elden Crook<br />
1978-2007</p>
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		<title>Comment on I will NOT lose by Mycole-Jerred</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/16/i-will-not-lose/#comment-10</link>
		<dc:creator>Mycole-Jerred</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 21:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/16/i-will-not-lose/#comment-10</guid>
		<description>Yo Michelle, believe me you  
i understand these big city ,follow ur dreams situation all to well, So i feel you  and I will not Lose either
So lets stay positive, stay golden,and work hard
and Lord Willing we will be successful</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yo Michelle, believe me you<br />
i understand these big city ,follow ur dreams situation all to well, So i feel you  and I will not Lose either<br />
So lets stay positive, stay golden,and work hard<br />
and Lord Willing we will be successful</p>
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		<title>Comment on The To-Do and Not-To-Do list: How to make your lady happy! by smallgirlvsbigcity</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/15/the-to-do-and-not-to-do-list-how-to-make-your-lady-happy/#comment-9</link>
		<dc:creator>smallgirlvsbigcity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 16:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/15/the-to-do-and-not-to-do-list-how-to-make-your-lady-happy/#comment-9</guid>
		<description>HAAAAAAAA HA HA!! i love this. i might print it and post it on my fridge for "visitors"... i'll vouch for all of your pointers... but dont underestimate a well-timed hair pull :) xoxo you're wise beyond your years meish</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HAAAAAAAA HA HA!! i love this. i might print it and post it on my fridge for &#8220;visitors&#8221;&#8230; i&#8217;ll vouch for all of your pointers&#8230; but dont underestimate a well-timed hair pull <img src='http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> xoxo you&#8217;re wise beyond your years meish</p>
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		<title>Comment on Can ex&#8217;s really be JUST friends? by jen</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/11/can-exs-really-be-just-friends/#comment-7</link>
		<dc:creator>jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 17:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/11/can-exs-really-be-just-friends/#comment-7</guid>
		<description>That is hard to say unless you know the meaning of friends. Friendship means to be cooperative and supportive towards someones wellfare and well being. To be cooperative means the principle or practice of unselfish concern for or devotion to the welfare of others.  If you think you can be these things to him inspite of the hurt he caused you you go for it. But If  you can;t  then just being curteous and not rude is more then enough to ask of yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is hard to say unless you know the meaning of friends. Friendship means to be cooperative and supportive towards someones wellfare and well being. To be cooperative means the principle or practice of unselfish concern for or devotion to the welfare of others.  If you think you can be these things to him inspite of the hurt he caused you you go for it. But If  you can;t  then just being curteous and not rude is more then enough to ask of yourself.</p>
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		<title>Comment on ASK and you shall RECIEVE- John 16:24 by jen loza</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/12/ask-and-you-shall-recieve-john-1624/#comment-6</link>
		<dc:creator>jen loza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 17:26:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/12/ask-and-you-shall-recieve-john-1624/#comment-6</guid>
		<description>I love the woman you represent Meshelly. And your drive. May god bless you in all you put your mind too. You will be somebody Michelle, because of your faith.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the woman you represent Meshelly. And your drive. May god bless you in all you put your mind too. You will be somebody Michelle, because of your faith.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Can ex&#8217;s really be JUST friends? by Adam</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/11/can-exs-really-be-just-friends/#comment-5</link>
		<dc:creator>Adam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 18:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/11/can-exs-really-be-just-friends/#comment-5</guid>
		<description>Michelle,

:) funny that you asked this question...I too agree with the above comments and think that it should all be based on the maturity level of each person involved. If you can trully handle yourself in any situation with the other person and keep your cool, then yes, go ahead and be friends. But, if a new girl, flirting, or some strong sexual desire comes into play between you two, then unless you want to deal with that drama I would not stay friends with them. There are many types of friends as you mentioned and friends with benefits isn't always what it seems because in the end, everything gets messed up. I know that we all have our needs, but that is what socializing is for. You are better off meeting someone new and trying new things, than to stir the same pot of problems. 

This is only my opinion, and I understand that others might differ with what I saying. Take care and have a great day. 

Adam C.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michelle,</p>
<p> <img src='http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> funny that you asked this question&#8230;I too agree with the above comments and think that it should all be based on the maturity level of each person involved. If you can trully handle yourself in any situation with the other person and keep your cool, then yes, go ahead and be friends. But, if a new girl, flirting, or some strong sexual desire comes into play between you two, then unless you want to deal with that drama I would not stay friends with them. There are many types of friends as you mentioned and friends with benefits isn&#8217;t always what it seems because in the end, everything gets messed up. I know that we all have our needs, but that is what socializing is for. You are better off meeting someone new and trying new things, than to stir the same pot of problems. </p>
<p>This is only my opinion, and I understand that others might differ with what I saying. Take care and have a great day. </p>
<p>Adam C.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Can ex&#8217;s really be JUST friends? by jess</title>
		<link>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/11/can-exs-really-be-just-friends/#comment-4</link>
		<dc:creator>jess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 17:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://michellejoyphelps.today.com/2008/09/11/can-exs-really-be-just-friends/#comment-4</guid>
		<description>hey ma!  you and relationships.. okay, here's what i say, YES-- you can definitley remain friends with your ex.  AS LONG, as ya'll are both mature enough, no sexual feelings (unless you both need some and agree upon some action--but, then of course that can lead up to some other unnecessary drama), and respect one another.  I also think, time is a big factor--i hope there was enough time between the break up to the new friendship to mend self-respect and confindence to oneself.  Personally, I too, being the bigger person, am happy to say i am friends with all my ex's (even the one that was psycho)  Why?  Because i spent quality time with them in the past and because now that i am mature enough.. there is nothing wrong with saying a simple, 'hi' and a genuine 'how are you?'.  why grow hatred?  it only wears you out, bothers you more, and i heard its unhealthy.. heeheehee.

i'm at work and had to rush-type.  excuse the typos, grammer, and phrases.

take care beb!!  hope this helps!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey ma!  you and relationships.. okay, here&#8217;s what i say, YES&#8211; you can definitley remain friends with your ex.  AS LONG, as ya&#8217;ll are both mature enough, no sexual feelings (unless you both need some and agree upon some action&#8211;but, then of course that can lead up to some other unnecessary drama), and respect one another.  I also think, time is a big factor&#8211;i hope there was enough time between the break up to the new friendship to mend self-respect and confindence to oneself.  Personally, I too, being the bigger person, am happy to say i am friends with all my ex&#8217;s (even the one that was psycho)  Why?  Because i spent quality time with them in the past and because now that i am mature enough.. there is nothing wrong with saying a simple, &#8216;hi&#8217; and a genuine &#8216;how are you?&#8217;.  why grow hatred?  it only wears you out, bothers you more, and i heard its unhealthy.. heeheehee.</p>
<p>i&#8217;m at work and had to rush-type.  excuse the typos, grammer, and phrases.</p>
<p>take care beb!!  hope this helps!</p>
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